How to say sorry with flowers

21 September 2022
Bouquet of Lilies - Court Florist Christchurch

Part of the human condition is that we make mistakes. We’ve all been in situations where we’ve said something insensitive, behaved inappropriately or reacted in a way that causes upset, but it is how we respond afterwards that influences the long-term impact of the misdemeanour.


Saying sorry and apologising demonstrates you know you have done wrong and how you recognise the other person’s feelings have been hurt. Over the years, Court Florist have helped people apologise for so many diverse reasons – from minor infringements through to major and serious wrongdoings. Our experienced team of florists are not here to judge or require any context; rather, we’re here to help deliver the message through stunning apology flowers.


Why choose flowers to say sorry

When you wish to express regret but are unsure how the apology will be received, a flower delivery is a stress-free first step to take. Think about what type or colour of flowers the recipient will enjoy the most. If they have a favourite flower type or colour, choose a flower arrangement you know they’ll love – the significance will not go unnoticed, and the gesture heightened by this detail. Court Florist create hand-crafted, bespoke arrangements for our clients, and yes, we can do same day flower delivery (Christchurch and suburbs) to meet your unique needs. 


The best options for apology flowers

If you don’t know which type of forgiveness flowers to include in an arrangement, take inspiration from tradition. There’s so much hidden expression in a beautiful bouquet of flowers; culturally they are highly symbolic representing special meanings and emotions.


·        Lift the spirit with lilies


White lilies speak the language of love and affection but they also represent purity, commitment and rebirth which is why lilies are popular funeral flowers and a bridal bouquet favourite.


·        Romantic roses


Roses are synonymous with unconditional love and affection, and as such are an effective way to apologise to someone you love. Including a bouquet of roses in a gift hamper elevates the apology to the stratosphere, but equally, a single red rose makes a high emotional impact.

 

·        The purity of gardenias


Gardenias are a delightful flower with a beautiful scent, and symbolise trust, clarity, hope and renewal, but also self-reflection – a key element of a genuine apology.

 

·        Elegant orchids


Orchids are associated with sincerity, and a white orchid symbolises peace and agreement which makes them a solid choice for an apology bouquet.


·        Joyful sunflowers


There are very few instances when sunflowers fail to raise a smile. They are the epitome of joy and cheerfulness; however, be mindful the good vibes you are sending are an appropriate response to the gravity of the situation.

Everything is always said best with flowers – but do spend time to think of what to write in the flower apology card: genuine, sincere and from the heart. Whether you choose online same day flower delivery for Christchurch or wish to come into the Victoria Street florist to select your apology flowers, we’ll make sure the flowers convey your message. Click here to drop us a line or call 03 379 8255.


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